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20 February 2015 @ 09:04 am
Confessional 2015  
Tell me a secret! Tell me a not-secret! Whisper sweet somethings in my comment box. Express your maddest crush or deepest curiosity! Expound upon the fabulousness of your friends or lovers or would-be friends or lovers! Or people you know or want to know. Do it anonymously or with your name attached; anonymous commenting is on and IP logging is off.

You know you want to!

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I'm feeling: curiouscurious
 
 
 
(Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 07:39 am (UTC)
Maiden Princes
I'm not sure which book sparked their shared fantasy; the two of them had likely perverted it beyond recognition over the weeks they'd spent planning in any case. Facebook sessions, whispered phone calls, a swear-to-god google doc, the result was an evil queen, an innocent prince in bondage, and a willing servant, yours truly.


We had purchased the harness for her as a gift, along with the long purple shaft. She'd never owned one before, never tried one on before that night. My previous experiences with lovers strapping on had all involved an element of butch swagger and dominance; none of them had prepared me for the way in her case the cock enhanced rather than diminished her preferred submissiveness during play. It was all she could do to meet my eyes, the cuffs black and stark against her very, very pale skin and the silver crushed velvet of the piano bench. She was shaking as my lover's hands pressed down on my shoulders, pushing me to my knees.

"Prepare the prince for for me," she demanded.

There's something incredibly powerful about sucking a woman's virgin cock, an unexpected energy that manages to jump the inanimate part of the circuit to create a phantom limb so sensitive a flicker of tongue can cause hips to jump, breath to become short. As I took her in the back of my throat I had a brief absurd moment of worry she'd come in my mouth too soon, leaving nothing for my lover who was waiting impatiently, imperiously, behind us. For an equally absurd instant I very much hoped that would happen.

But finally, reluctantly, I let her slip free, kissing her hard to let her taste my violated mouth, sliding a fingertip in a glistening trail down her now-slick shaft. Reality intruded with a brief discussion of geometry ("Remember how well it worked that time with the coffee table?") and then everyone was in position, her between us with her back supported against my chest, the stiffness I had just prepared teasing my lover open, then disappearing inch by inch. The queen would have her due.


"You're no longer a virgin, my prince," I whispered as their hips met.

Realizing a fantasy takes a little bit of extra effort but the payoff when everything comes together makes it all worth it. Her response to those words left my ears ringing and I would give almost anything, name your price, to be able to bottle the sheer animal joy of that sound.
(Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 04:14 pm (UTC)
inquiring minds want to know…
Which one have you done with more people:
1) dated, or had sex?
2) had vanilla sex, or kinky (chocolate? strawberry?) sex?
3) had 1-night-stand sex, or LTR sex?
4) had sex with a primary or monogamous partner, or had sex with other people?

My answers are 1) sex, 2) vanilla sex, 3) 1-night-stand sex, and 4) sex with primary.
I'm sad about 1-3, and ambivalent about 4.
(Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 04:31 pm (UTC)
Re: inquiring minds want to know…
1) dated
2) vanilla
3) LTR
4) not sure. probably primary.
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 04:47 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 04:56 pm (UTC) (Expand)
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Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 06:10 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 06:19 pm (UTC) (Expand)
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Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 06:31 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 08:25 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 08:59 pm (UTC) (Expand)
More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 09:33 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 09:41 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 09:46 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 11:59 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 12:46 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 04:52 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 05:02 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 11:40 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 06:12 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 06:20 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 06:44 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 11:43 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 08:16 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 01:55 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: More sex than dates? How? - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 04:53 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 01:34 pm (UTC) (Expand)
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Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 04:57 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 11:36 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 03:02 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: inquiring minds want to know… - (Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 11:16 am (UTC) (Expand)
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(Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 04:57 pm (UTC)
TELL ME ABOUT YOUR ASS
...surgery, that is.

This is embarrassing and totally TMI, which means the confessional is the perfect place to ask: Has anyone here ever had an external hemorrhoidectomy? If so, could you share your experience with me? I've had a very annoying external hemorrhoid since pregnancy and birth, and I'm getting to the point where I'm strongly considering having it removed. It sounds kind of freaky, though, so it would be nice to know what to expect if anyone here has had it done. Thanks!
(Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 01:41 pm (UTC)
Re: TELL ME ABOUT YOUR ASS
I've had external hemorrhoids, and they are really extremely annoying. I never got mine removed, but I wish you the best of luck with yours. Sorry I don't have more help.
Re: TELL ME ABOUT YOUR ASS - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 02:40 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: TELL ME ABOUT YOUR ASS - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 02:39 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: TELL ME ABOUT YOUR ASS - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 02:42 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: TELL ME ABOUT YOUR ASS - (Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 03:08 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 06:09 pm (UTC)
TKOPs
I miss them.
(Anonymous) on February 28th, 2015 07:51 pm (UTC)
Re: TKOPs
So do I.

(For some reason I just had the thought: Hey! I know a good use for a co-housing main-house space! but I suspect that's a non-starter in about 30 different ways. :) including that I'm not involved with any co-housing organization.)
(Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 07:59 pm (UTC)
Missing Persons Report
Who do you miss who used to be here on LiveJournal but left and isn't posting or responding any more? And are you still in contact with them on those other social media platforms, or did they fall off the face of the planet?
(Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 02:11 am (UTC)
paradox_dragon
Nearly everyone I've friended on LiveJournal was someone I knew off LiveJournal, so either I stayed in contact with them or them leaving LJ is not the reason we dropped out of contact.

One exception is paradox_dragon, who I met on LiveJournal when we kept commenting on the same subthreads of a notorious post-of-many-comments and admiring each others' comments. We followed each other on LJ for years, started corresponding by email sometimes, and she even gave me her address to send books to her and her partner that I offered to send (they loved the books).

We often didn't contact each other for many months, and she wasn't a frequent poster, so I didn't notice right away when she stopped posting. By the time I thought to wonder what was up with her, her journal was deleted. They had moved by then; I knew they were moving but didn't have the new address. Her email address that I knew, bounced. It was a yahoo address so maybe she just made the switch to gmail like so many others were doing around that time. Her name is one of the most common first names in the US, and a fairly common last name, so finding her on the net is unlikely. We never met and I don't really clearly know what she looks like.

She was awesome and I miss her and our online friendship.
Re: Missing Persons Report - (Anonymous) on March 3rd, 2015 05:58 am (UTC) (Expand)
Rowan: Sexymzrowan on March 1st, 2015 09:14 pm (UTC)
Throwing your own sex/kink party
Starting a new thread, since this has come up in a couple of separate threads.

The Welcome parties have spawned a mailing list of people who were invited to any one of the parties (and who chose to join the list). It's not really active, but if you'd like to be on it, contact me through my LJ email. At the very least, you'll get announcements when the next Welcome party is coming up.

You could also use it as a place to post invites for your own parties if you're worried you'd be short on enthusiastic attendees. It's Boston-centric, but in my experience, people are willing to travel as far afield as Providence or the New Hampshire border for a night of sexy fun (and even further for a whole weekend of it).

When we took a break from throwing the Welcome parties, I encouraged the list members to throw their own parties. I posted a bunch of tips and also offered to consult on hosting. I'm happy to make the same consulting offer here (and that doesn't mean that you have to invite me! I just want to help more parties happen).
Rowan: Sexymzrowan on March 1st, 2015 09:18 pm (UTC)
Welcome parties
Another thread for this specifically.

We took a break from throwing Welcome parties to reserve our energies for a difficult personal process that is now over. We'll probably be throwing one again this year, probably in the fall. Contact me through my LJ email if you'd be interested in attending. I'll post here again when we have a firm date, so you could also track this post if you want to get in on the action.
(Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 02:35 am (UTC)
Re: Welcome parties
How are you doing?
Re: Welcome parties - mzrowan on March 3rd, 2015 04:30 am (UTC) (Expand)
(Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 10:58 pm (UTC)
entrope
I have a long standing crush on entrope who is an all around awesome person who I would love to get all snuggly and kissy with. (Again.)

Catpcha: "which one is hottest?" And entrope is not an option, because captchas are cruel teases.
(Anonymous) on March 1st, 2015 11:23 pm (UTC)
Re: entrope
OMGYes! Please!
Re: entrope - (Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 02:07 am (UTC) (Expand)
Re: entrope - entrope on March 2nd, 2015 01:27 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: entrope - (Anonymous) on March 5th, 2015 10:00 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 04:11 pm (UTC)
it's been so long
It's been so long since I've had sex that I'm having trouble visualizing the details, and all my sexual fantasies sorta "fade to black" when we get to the nitty gritty.

On the plus side, it's been so long that even fantasies of the most PG-13-rated encounters (someone stroking my breast or kissing my neck) are enough to send me into paroxysms.

The part of the fantasy that is clear is the post-coital exhausted, sweaty, breathless collapse into cuddling.

I hope 2015 brings my break-fast, complete with wild-fantasy neck kissing and sweaty cuddling!
(Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 05:06 pm (UTC)
sprinnng!
Hey... with the sun out today, and the snow melting, and the city of Somerville taking away so much snow from our side streets, does anyone else suddenly get this feeling that the upcoming spring might be ESPECIALLY SPRINGY-FEELING?

Suddenly, today, I want to make sexy dates and flirt outrageously and get carried away. After all, we've all got a lot to release this year!
(Anonymous) on March 3rd, 2015 04:03 am (UTC)
Re: sprinnng!
YES!!! That is definitely what's going on with me.
ruthless compassion: martini handsaroraborealis on March 2nd, 2015 07:58 pm (UTC)
Hey, confessors! I'll be closing this up around 5 today, FYI!
(Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 08:07 pm (UTC)
Thank you for being a delightful host, as always!
(no subject) - (Anonymous) on March 2nd, 2015 09:34 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - aroraborealis on March 2nd, 2015 09:46 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - (Anonymous) on March 3rd, 2015 06:01 am (UTC) (Expand)