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20 February 2015 @ 09:04 am
Confessional 2015  
Tell me a secret! Tell me a not-secret! Whisper sweet somethings in my comment box. Express your maddest crush or deepest curiosity! Expound upon the fabulousness of your friends or lovers or would-be friends or lovers! Or people you know or want to know. Do it anonymously or with your name attached; anonymous commenting is on and IP logging is off.

You know you want to!

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I'm feeling: curiouscurious
 
 
 
(Anonymous) on February 20th, 2015 05:14 pm (UTC)
I've spent most of the last decade evolving, moving past toxic relationships and damaging behavior, and learning how to be an adult and a good partner to those I share my life with. At what point do I stop craving random irresponsible furniture-breaking bad idea sex with people of questionable emotional stability?
(Anonymous) on February 20th, 2015 05:51 pm (UTC)
Speaking as someone who *also* spent a decade seeking toxic relationships and engaging in bad behavior... you don't ever stop craving bad idea sex. Not *completely*.
(Anonymous) on February 21st, 2015 12:31 am (UTC)
Amen
(Anonymous) on February 21st, 2015 12:40 am (UTC)
bad idea sex
I'll always want it when the right person-of-questionable-emotional-stability comes along, which will never stop happening.
(Anonymous) on February 21st, 2015 01:03 am (UTC)
Channel it, is my only advice
I have so many of these kinds of desires-- I can usually channel them into either roleplaying or friends-with-benefits hookups with people I don't see very often (and therefore can project more of my desires onto them without harm). It doesn't completely scratch the itch, but it keeps me from going batty and feels good.
(Anonymous) on February 21st, 2015 08:36 pm (UTC)
Re: Channel it, is my only advice
Yeah, word. I'm totally up for *pretending* to be someone's local bad idea sex. But I only do that with people who are, y'know, not actually bad ideas.
(Anonymous) on February 21st, 2015 08:47 pm (UTC)
Re: Channel it, is my only advice
Oh hey. I want to pretend to be be bad idea sex! That's a good idea.