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20 February 2015 @ 09:04 am
Confessional 2015  
Tell me a secret! Tell me a not-secret! Whisper sweet somethings in my comment box. Express your maddest crush or deepest curiosity! Expound upon the fabulousness of your friends or lovers or would-be friends or lovers! Or people you know or want to know. Do it anonymously or with your name attached; anonymous commenting is on and IP logging is off.

You know you want to!

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I'm feeling: curiouscurious
 
 
 
(Anonymous) on February 21st, 2015 11:09 pm (UTC)
Re: okcupid exclusions and bonuses
Bonuses:
Geeky, nerdy. It doesn't even have to be my specific flavor of geekery/nerdery. If something you do rocks your world that's great.
Being creative, even if you're not a paid professional.
Awareness of local/national/international news, politics, events.

Exclusions:
Smoking
Wants Kids
Zero interest in the world around you (news, politics, etc.)
Homebody

(Anonymous) on February 22nd, 2015 07:27 am (UTC)
Re: okcupid exclusions and bonuses
Hmmmmm. Is it kosher to ask you what gender you are & what gender(s) you're looking for?

I ask because I'm a lady, and even though my like NUMBER ONE criterion for choosing a partner is that I want them to be geeky, when I list "geeky" as something I'm looking for and/or list details about my own geekiness, it is a DISASTER. I either get dudes who are intensely patronizing and rude or ladies who are shy to the point of being incommunicative. Have you had success with this? WHY CAN'T I FIND A GEEK TO KEEP ME WARM AT NIGHT
(Anonymous) on February 23rd, 2015 04:13 am (UTC)
Re: okcupid exclusions and bonuses
I'm male looking for female.
I haven't had much success with OKcupid but, to be fair I don't send out a lot of messages or check it every week so that's probably a user issue.
If it's okay for me to ask questions in return:
Mono or poly?
Kinky or not kinky?
Age range?
Age range that you find dateable?
(Anonymous) on February 24th, 2015 04:40 am (UTC)
Re: okcupid exclusions and bonuses
Still original Geeky Poster here.
If you'd prefer to move this conversation offline I've set up an email:
anonconf2015@gmail.com