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20 February 2015 @ 09:04 am
Confessional 2015  
Tell me a secret! Tell me a not-secret! Whisper sweet somethings in my comment box. Express your maddest crush or deepest curiosity! Expound upon the fabulousness of your friends or lovers or would-be friends or lovers! Or people you know or want to know. Do it anonymously or with your name attached; anonymous commenting is on and IP logging is off.

You know you want to!

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ETA: IP logging is back on!
 
 
I'm feeling: curiouscurious
 
 
 
(Anonymous) on February 23rd, 2015 01:03 am (UTC)
Re: first date duds
Cis het man here, simply befuddled that this can actually happen enough to be noteworthy!
I... but... how do you go on a date and not poke questions at someone???
(Anonymous) on February 23rd, 2015 01:09 am (UTC)
Re: first date duds
Maybe they're just assuming that women are going to ramble on and on about themselves just like they do? Seems terribly boring!
(Anonymous) on February 26th, 2015 08:40 am (UTC)
Re: first date duds
Being shocked and confused when you hear a story like this might indicate that this is not a problem you have.

I suspect your intentions are good. But I find this response troubling... maybe because...

In my experience, this kind of monologue behavior happens every day, nearly everywhere I go. I don't have to have a particular gender (or be on a date) to notice it. If you are shocked that this happens, you might not be paying attention.

Or maybe you and all of your friends are awesome conversationalists. I prefer that scenario.