For those of you who are married or who've been married:
Why did you get married? Did it change your (primary) relationship to be married? How? (For those of you who are nonmonogamous, did it change your other relationships?)
Is marriage what you expected? How? How not? Is it what you hoped? Is it harder/easier?
If you could go back and give your pre-marriage self some advice or insight, what would it be?
Anonymous posting is (always) on.
